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أكثر خمسة أشياء نندم عليها عندما نكبر.

ألّفت ممرضة استرالية كتابا يدعى: “أكثر خمسة أشياء نندم عليها عندما نكبر”، ولكنه ليس كتابا من بعض كتب التنمية البشرية المنتشرة والتي لا ترقى إلى مستوى التنفيذ، بل تظل حبرا على ورق، فهذا الكتاب مبنى على أراء وحياة المرضى الذين كانت تعالجهم، وخصوصا الذين كانو مقبلين على الموت قريبا. تم سؤال العديد منهم عن أبرز الأشياء التي ندموا على فعلها (أو عدم فعلها) لو عادوا إلى سن الشباب. بالطبع كانت الإجابات مختلفة، ولكن أغلبيتهم إتفقوا على خمسة أشياء.

1- عيش الحياة

يقول أحدهم: “تمنيت لو كانت لديّ الشجاعة لأعيش لنفسي، ولا أعيش الحياة التي يتوقعها أو يريدها مني الآخرون.”

فقد عبّر معظمهم عن ندمه على إرضاء الغير(كرؤسائهم في العمل) أو الظهور بمظهر يُرضي المجتمع أو من يعيشون حوله، في مقابل أن ينسوا أنفسهم وأن يتركو ما يحبوه.

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2- نسيان الأحباء

“تمنيت لو أنني خصصت وقتاً أطول لعائلتي وأصدقائي بدلا من إضاعة العمر كله في روتين العمل المجهد”.

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3- التعبير عن المشاعر

“تمنيت لو كانت لديّ الشجاعة لأعبّر عن مشاعري بصراحة ووضوح”.

فالكثيرون كتموا مشاعرهم لأسباب مثل تجنّب مصادمة الآخرين، أو التضحية لأجل أناس لايستحقون، وفضلوا الصبر إلى أن فات الأوان.

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4- إبقاء الإتصال

“تمنيت لو بقيت على اتصال مع أصدقائي القدامى أو تجديد صداقتي معهم. فالأصدقاء القدامى يختلفون عن بقية الأصدقاء كوننا نشعر معهم بالسعادة ونسترجع معهم ذكريات الطفولة الجميلة. ولكننا للأسف نبتعد عنهم في مرحلة العمل وبناء العائلة حتى نفقدهم نهائياً أونسمع بوفاتهم فجأة.”

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5- السعادة

“تمنيت لو أنني أدركت مبكراً المعنى الحقيقي للسعادة. فمعظمنا لا يدرك إلا متأخراً أن السعادة كانت حالة ذهنية لا ترتبط بالمال أو المنصب أو الشهرة، إن السعادة كانت اختياراً يمكن نيله بجهد أقل وتكلفة أبسط ولكننا نبقى متمسكين بالأفكار التقليدية حول تحقيقها.”

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هم -للأسف- يغلب علي كلامهم التمنى، ولكن أنت لا يزال أمامك الفرصة، قبل أن تندم أنت الأخر.

 

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